2023 Wedding Trends

2023 wedding trends are off to a great start! You’ll be seeing many new ideas and inspiration throughout the wedding industry. With the Pantone Color of the year for 2023 being Magenta, wedding decor will include vibrant colors including wedding palettes of textures, furniture, and fashion. A lovely way to bring in color to your design include florals, guests place settings, dance floors, stationary and wedding dresses (yes…floral wedding gowns). The sky’s the limit.

Lighting will be a creative opportunity to provide unique installed light fixtures that elevate and transform your space into a memorable decor element.

Micro weddings continue to be very popular and will continue to do so. Micro weddings are like having a dinner party for a small number of guests, with tablescapes that can be fun, eclectic and custom from your dinnerware to stunning florals and furniture settings.

(courtesy of Pretty Little Vintage Company)

Over the top “After Parties” are popular with custom espresso martini bars, 3D and 360 photo booths, pop up lounges for a club feel and even aerial dancers.

Architectural and interior design elements like wood and textures will enhance your event space for a unique style and vibe, whether your vision is rustic or elegant.

Food is always an area where I encourage our couples to explore as there are so many options other than the traditional wedding menu(rubbery chicken is never a favorite). Farm to table is very popular as they source locally for fresh ingredients. Caterers and chefs are able to customize your menu to your particular taste and liking.

Fun food elements include nostalgia food like your school favorites of mini grilled cheese and tomato bisque soup combos, truffle french fries, a tasty version of Monte Cristo sandwich wedges and mini pastry mac-n-cheese. Comfort food is always a crowd pleaser and that’s just the hors d’oeuvres!

A fine dinning experience would include elegant created menus of braised short ribs and french onion soup boule. Elevated from the traditional hors d’oeuvres of bacon wrapped scallops and lobster roll.

(courtesy of Pretty Little Vintage Company)

Dessert is always a great way to wrap up a celebration. Butter cream painted cakes are very popular, which elevate the traditional wedding cake. Creativity and color are the key. Don’t overlook dessert tables, which have been popular for awhile and will continue to be so. A dessert table allows you to have an array of options, options and more options for your guests. You’ll be sure to find one of your favorite sweet treats from candy apples and donuts displays to mini desserts. There are options galore.

(courtesy of Making with Megan)

Signature drinks are a fun way to infuse your personality. One of our favorite signature drinks was a “Candy Apple” (red wine and cherry sparkling cider) which worked perfectly with the vineyard setting for our couples wedding celebration. What’s your favorite drink? It can easily be worked into a signature drink for you.

As we move forward in the 2023 wedding season, you’ll see couples personalizing their big day, as it should be. This celebration is the perfect opportunity to make memories that last a life time. Happy planning!

Mary Homer

Fairy Tale Weddings by Mary

http://www.fairytaleweddingsbymary.com

(Contributing partner – The Bride)

(Photo Credits – Pretty Little Vintage Company, Making with Megan)

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Last Minute Valentines Day Gifts

courtesy of Bubble & Sweet

Valentines day is only days away. Do you have special plans with your sweetheart? Have you shopped for that “perfect” gift?

If not, we have some last minute ideas for your sweetheart:

• Candy and flowers is an easy way to go, but how about a box of french macaroons? Pretty in pink and drizzled with chocolate. Sounds yummy already!
• Chocolate bombs are the trend right now, with mini marshmallows hidden inside when it melts over hot milk. Surprise, surprise.
• There’s nothing more personal than a love note…..written from your heart. You’ll make your sweethearts heart full and gushing.
• Never underestimate the power of rose petals and candles. It sets the perfect aviance for love and happiness.

In this time of pandemic, remember the ones you love and to say “I love you” every day.

Happy Valentines Day!

Mary Homer, Fairy Tale Weddings by Mary

http://www.fairytaleweddingsbymary.com

2021 Pantone Color of the Year

Every year Pantone chooses a color for the ear. It’s typically the “it” color for weddings, celebrations, and design. This year, 2021’s color is Ultimate Grey. You may ask, why? You should look at grey as a neutral color, like beige or white. Grey works with almost every other color on the color wheel. It’s also very popular right now in room designs and furniture. My own office is painted grey (surprise it’s the 2021 color of the year).

In planning your wedding, 2020 was a difficult year. Many weddings were canceled due to the pandemic or were down sized to micro weddings. However I’m convinced 2021 will be a much better year for brides and grooms. Grey decor and brides maid dresses will pop up for sure this wedding season. Use a pink sash or belt (or any color from your wedding color scheme) and you’ve transformed a simple grey gown into something special. But how else do use this color and what colors compliment this color?

When planning your wedding decor, using grey in your color scheme is fairly easy. Grey compliments pinks, greens, purples and even reds. It compliments most of the colors on the color wheel. You’ll find grey in table linens and runners/sashes for your guests tables and chairs. You can bring it in to your floral centerpieces with lambs ear filler and additional decor with pops of grey. Grey makes for a wonderful foundation to build your color scheme while making your wedding feel like you and your personality. Be creative. You may be surprised at the outcome and very, very happy you did.

Happy planning!

Fairy Tale Weddings by Mary

http://www.fairytaleweddingsbymary.com

Home Weddings vs Covid 19

We’ve all been impacted by the current pandemic involving Covid 19. However, remember we will celebrate again! Venues, dress shops, bakeries and all your wedding vendors will reopen. You can’t cancel LOVE! So let’s talk about “Plan B”.

You’ve planned your wedding packed full of fun and personality, down to the very last detail, ensuring your ceremony and reception will be a wonderful experience for your guests. Then everything closed and we had a “stay at home” order for essentially everyone near and far. Now what do you do with all those plans you worked so hard on? Do you postpone our wedding and reschedule? After all, no one plans fore a pandemic.

Consideration now moves to home weddings, especially if you have a back yard that is lush and park like. How do you pivot from a large, lavish celebration to an intimate home wedding?

First, I want you to know that you shouldn’t underestimate what you can do with a home wedding. The sky’s truly the limit. It will still be a great experience for your guests. However, here is where the real work begins if a home wedding is in your future:

1. Choose a new wedding date, even if it’s not your typical Saturday or Sunday. Midweek wedding dates are becoming popular and may make more sense for you and your guests.
2. Whether your backyard is large or small, you’ll need to revisit your guests list, as any location needs to be consider for maximum occupancy and comfort. No One envisions having to revisit their guests list; however our current times will likely require you to do so. So your guests list that was originally 100, 200 or even 300+ guests simply won’t be possible in a smaller space. This will be difficult, however remember many guests who were traveling distances or have compromised immune systems may not be able to attend at this point. Who do you want and need at your celebration? Additionally, be sure to check the local guidelines in your area to ensure you are in compliance.
3. Once you finalize your guests list, you’ll ant to coordinate with your vendors to determine who and what you’ll still need. You may need to revise y our contracts to add or remove services. If you’re working with a wedding planner, he/she will be your liaison with your vendors, handling any changes as needed. Remember your vendors are here to help you through the process, despite any changes.
4. Even though things may be a bit different now,, things will be okay. This is a celebration about you as a couple and your love for one another. Don’t sweat the small stuff (or the big stuff for that matter). So when you’re overwhelmed, which is to be expect and completely normal, take a deep breath and remember you are not in this along. You have vendors who will be there for you and if you have a wedding planner, he/she will be your rock, your sounding board and full of ideas to re-imagine this exceptional day for your.
5. Don’t be afraid to add a virtual component to your wedding ceremony, so guests who you couldn’t invite are able to share in your wedding day. Weddings may change a bit now, but people love to be a part of a love story and YOURS is the most important to them.
6. Self care at this point needs to be a priority. Enjoy a glass of wine with your BFF (even if it’s a Zoom call for now), share your concerns with your planner, family or friends so you have it off your chest (you’ll be surprised how much better you’ll feel) or exercise (whether gyms are open or not at this point). Taking care of YOU is a priority.
7. Lastly, don’t forget to relax and ENJOY your wedding day! Your wedding comes and goes in 4-6 hours but your love for one another will last a life time.

Happy planning during these changing times!

Mary Homer

Fairy Tale Weddings by Mary

http://www.fairytaleweddingsbymary.com

For the Love of Penguins

Have you ever wondered what do penguins know about love? Let me tell you…they know quite a bit and we could learn a lot from them.

Penguins will quite often dance for joy at the sight of their LOVED one.(Thus the wonderful movie Happy Feet comes to mind)

Penguins aren’t shy about sharing their love and will often sing their love for each other. Just like people in a lasting relationship, they find that hanging out with their partner or loved one is one of the greatest joy in life.

Did you know that Penguins stay with their mate for life? When Penguins find their soul mate, they stay their entire life with them, to the end. Penguins are monogamous, just like humans. They mate for life.

We show our affection for our spouse or girlfriend/boyfriend by kissing.  Penguins do the same thing, only with their beaks. They rub their beaks on their mate or preen their mates feathers as a sign of love.  Just like you or me, they close their eyes when they kiss.

So let’s love like a Penguin.  Love for life. Kiss with your eyes closed.

Mary Homer

Fairy Tale Weddings by Mary

http://www.fairytaleweddingsbymary.com

 

 

Favorite Valentine Gifts

What’s your FAVORITE Valentine gift?  Is is a red heart shaped box of chocolates?  Or does your special someone give you a special piece of jewelry to show his love and appreciation?

The most popular gifts include:

• Chocolates (candy makes the top of the list)
• Hallmark greeting card (full of sentiment and emotion)
• Going out for dinner or a movie (a little alone time never hurts)
• Flowers, particularly red roses are the flower of choice at this time of year, however tulips are becoming popular
• Jewelry rounds out the top 5 Valentine gifts (a sure winner for any special girl in your life)

Thoughtful and romantic Valentine gifts are perfect for your wife or girlfriend, but don’t forget your mom, daughter(s) or a special friend or family member.  Remember Valentines day isn’t about gifts, but about spending time with the ones you love.

Wishing you a fabulous Valentine Day my friends!

Mary Homer

Fairy Tale Weddings by Mary

http://www.fairytaleweddingsbymary.com